Decisiveness

How many times do we let others decide for us? Every time we do, we give a little of our freedom away.  Are we not born free?  Yes I know, when we have children in our care or those who can’t make sound decisions any more we have to step in. Are we though, making …

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How many times do we let others decide for us? Every time we do, we give a little of our freedom away. 

Are we not born free? 

Yes I know, when we have children in our care or those who can’t make sound decisions any more we have to step in. Are we though, making the decision for the highest good of all? In flow with the divine? I wonder how many of the decisions made for others every day are with some vested interest….

Being able to make clear decisions that feel right deep in your body is such a gift- how is it that we give that gift away?

How about that little voice in the background letting us know when we should have decided for ourselves…..

Each decision has a consequence – those who decide for us don’t have to live with the consequence. That’s where the highest good comes in.

Would I want to live with the consequence of a decision I made for someone else?

Would I want to live with the regret of someone else having decided for me?

Powerful questions – needing to be asked every time.

‘I decide’ comes with taking full responsibility for the outcome.

How do I want to live my life? How do I want to feel?

I decide

I decide for me

Did you make me?

Is this mine,

is this yours?

I decide.


Do I eat? or not?

Do I sleep? or not?

Do I love =? or not?

Do I hate? or not?

My decision – I decide.


I wear it

I wear the outcome

If it’s crap – it’s mine and

If it’s awesome it’s mine too.

I decide.

I claim my right to decide 

for me – not for you.